Tips for Taking Kids to Disney World
Parents planning their child’s first trip to Walt Disney World often have a lot of questions, as visiting Walt Disney World with kids is uncharted territory that can be intimidating. This guide answers some of those questions. It may seem odd for such a guide to be written by people who don’t have kids, but bear with us and we think you’ll agree that there’s a lot of helpful advice here.
Why would you want to read a guide by people with no first hand knowledge of something? It might seem like the equivalent of learning to ride a bicycle from a teacher who has watched a bicycling video on YouTube, but has never actually ridden one. But, perhaps it’s the equivalent of having a fresh set of eyes offer logical insights based upon years of observations, but no direct experience (sort of like those “Washington Outsiders” constantly campaigning for political office…except in this case, we actually ARE outsiders!).
If you’re planning your first trip with kids to Walt Disney World, chances are that you won’t be reading only one planning article or guide–or at least you shouldn’t. So while we think we offer some potentially fresh advice here, we also aren’t definitive experts on this topic. Make sure to read a few other online guides and buy or check out a couple of books from the library (we recommend The Unofficial Guide to Walt Disney World with Kids 2018).
Normally, we don’t cover topics about which we’re so blatantly uninformed. But we do have a bit to say on this topic, and people keep finding this blog via Google (not knowing we don’t have kids) and emailing us questions about traveling with kids. So here’s a guide for those folks.
Since there are some serious gaps in our knowledge concerning visiting Walt Disney World with kids, we’ve enlisted the help of our brilliant (and did we mention good looking?) Facebook fans, who provided us over 100 tips for traveling to Walt Disney World with kids. You can find their quotes scattered throughout the article. The great thing about these quotes is that they often provide a sharp contrast to our opinions (and even actual parents can’t seem to agree on things), so they provide multiple perspectives from which you can determine what will work best for you.
This guide is meant to supplement other guides (including our own Walt Disney World Trip Planning Guide) and provide a reasonably informed (hopefully) perspective parents might not otherwise hear. All in all, we think this is a pretty decent resource to read as you plan that trip with the kids to Walt Disney World!
Attitude
The biggest piece of advice we can offer as outsiders is to know your limitations. We’ve seen this scenario time and time again, in a variety of forms: parent pushes child’s limits in one way or another, and everyone has a bad time. We understand that for many families, Walt Disney World trips with kids at that “right age” are a once in a lifetime thing, and a rite of passage. We understand that these trips are really expensive, and that there’s a natural desire to want to “make as much magic” for the kid as possible.
However, even without having kids, we know that both kids and parents get cranky after too much stimulation. We also believe that the crankiness does not occur in that order–parents are usually the cause, not the kids. Parental crankiness manifests itself in a variety of ways, but the unseen way is the most common: in the stubbornness of wanting to keep pushing when they normally would not in “normal” parent mode. This in turn causes crankiness in the child who is beyond their breaking point, which in turns causes more crankiness in the parent, who keeps thinking about how much the trip cost, and how much fun they “need” to “make” their kids have.
As a parent, attitude is everything. (This will be a pervasive theme of this article.) Don’t go into the trip with the attitude that you need to do 17 attractions per day and must have X, Y, and Z done before 11:30 am. Remember that 4 hours per day of quality time in the parks is better than 8 hours consisting of 2 hours of quality time and 6 hours of miserable time. Yes, trips cost a lot of money, but the only priceless memories are good memories. If your memories are mostly of being at each others’ throats, what is the value of those memories? Very little. Brooke W. hits the nail on the head: “Make time for rest! Do not be warriors. Nothing is fun if the kids are crying and the parents are cranky.”
If you’ve been to Walt Disney World before having kids, don’t expect to go at your old pace or to do the same things you once did. The trade-off for seeing the magic through your children’s eyes as they light up with joy upon meeting Mickey Mouse for the first time is that you can’t do marathon hours in the park like we can (unless you bring grandparents! ;)). For what it’s worth, we’re probably more jealous of your experience than you are of ours.
Approaching the trip with realistic expectations and a positive attitude is the most important element of planning a trip to Walt Disney World with kids. A plan of attack for hitting rides in the most efficient order is a great thing to have (as you’ll read below), but parents should be prepared to abandon those plans immediately once the kids on the trip are beginning to approach that wall.
Don’t let parental stubbornness cause child crankiness.
What Age is Right
With a realistic and positive attitude set, it’s time to plan that first trip! By far, the most common question we get is, “what age is right?” This is a controversial question, and we’re going to plead ignorance. Not just to avoid offending people who disagree (don’t worry, we’ll likely do that in some manner before the conclusion of this post), but because that’s a loaded question that really depends on your circumstances. Plus, our answer might very well change once we have kids of our own.
It’s a loaded question because what everyone wants out of a trip to Walt Disney World with their kids differs. For many adults who take their really young children, the experience is not about the memories of the kids, but for the parents. It’s about watching their kid’s face light up as they touch Eeyore for the first time, or it’s about getting that first photo in front of Cinderella Castle. We can say now that we probably wouldn’t want to hassle with taking a 1 year old to Walt Disney World now, but our opinion might very well change once we have a 1 year old of our own, and want those memories of our own.
Our advice here would be not to let other people talk you out of the decision you’ve already made concerning when is right for that first trip. It seems like a lot of parents find themselves thinking that they want to take a trip with their toddler for whatever reason, and then turn to other people, almost as if they want to be talked out of the crazy idea.
In this area of planning, your individual instincts and gut feeling should trump all else. If you want to wait until the kids are old enough to walk, wait. If you want to take them as soon as it’s safe (experts advise that you limit a newborn’s exposure to large groups of people so that they don’t get sick, so they’re the only group we’d rule out definitively as being “not” the right age), more power to you. You know what you want more than I know what you want.
Regardless of when that first trip is, prepare them for it. Build the excitement and help them understand as much about what they’ll see as possible. Jill M. explains this well: “Prep them! As soon you book, start reading Disney stories, watching movies, etc. The Dumbo ride is far cooler after you’ve seen the movie. Meeting Baloo is far more interesting if you’ve seen “The Jungle Book.” Build the anticipation.”
Since this section is more or less, “when to go to Disney World with kids,” we’ll lump time of year in here too. If possible, don’t go when school is out of session (especially if your kids aren’t yet in school). We’re not suggesting that you should pull them out of school, but keep in mind that school holidays are the busiest times to go.
David H. offers a glimpse into the madness: “If you have kids that are, let’s say 10 and under, avoid going at peak crowd times if you can. I was there for Christmas Eve last time and the crowd on Main Street/Hub to see the fireworks was insane. I’m not exaggerating when I say that we were afraid that we would get separated from our kids by the crowd and not be able to get to them again right away. It didn’t happen, but just holding hands wasn’t enough. In commercials, there’s plenty of elbow room and you can happen upon Mickey Mouse standing there with few others around, in reality, it’s a nearly solid snowplow of humanity blindly pressing towards the exits and you will be but a snowflake if you’re not careful.”
Our When to Visit Walt Disney World page offers some good tips on what times of year are good and bad times to visit.
Where to Stay
Where to stay really depends upon personal preference. We have Walt Disney World Hotel Reviews that can give you an idea of what might appeal most to your group. Common advice for families is to stay a hotel that’s not spread out. The cheapest compact hotel is Disney’s Port Orleans Resort – French Quarter, but even the Values aren’t terrible options here if your budget doesn’t allow for one of the really compact Deluxe Resorts like the Contemporary or BoardWalk.
Basically, stay in the most compact hotel in your price tier. This means French Quarter out of the Moderates, Contemporary out of the Deluxes, and All Star Music out of the Values. The advantages are more pronounced at French Quarter and the compact Deluxes than they are at All Star Music–pretty much all of the Values are equal in size.
Ultimately, this is “best case” advice assuming you don’t have a favorite hotel, and also assuming this really matters. If you despise the theme of the Contemporary and love the Grand Floridian, you’re not going to be substantially inconvenienced by the short walks there. Now, if Old Key West is more up your alley, there might be cause for concern. Old Key West has an internal bus route, which means more bus time with the kids every time you want to grab a meal or do anything within the resort. But it also means that you don’t have to walk incredibly long distances, because there’s that internal bus system.
We’ve found that despite the sentiments of adults, a lot of kids love the over-the-top theming of the Value Resorts. Stacey G. echoes this: “My kids LOVED Pop Century! There is a ping pong table, Twister game and a nightly Disney Movie by the main pool.” Jarrett G. agrees: “Port Orleans was amazing, but I think the kids enjoyed POP the most due to over the top theming. The Disney theming is more subtle in moderate and deluxe. Little kids like to see their comforter covered in Disney Characters.”
Another resort, Animal Kingdom Lodge, that may be inconvenient for people with kids is often popular with families. Megan A. shares: “We took our son to WDW at age 1 and age 2. We stayed at Animal Kingdom Villas, He loved pointing out the animals. We try to do 2 park days, then a rest day, and then 2 park days and a rest day, so that we’re not going, going, going. We took time to watch animals, do the marshmallow roasting and play in the pool. He now calls it ‘our lodge.'”
Resort pools should also be a consideration, as midday breaks at the pool seem to be popular and well-remembered by kids. See what pool theme appeals most (the best pool by far is Storm-Along Bay at the Yacht and Beach Club) to your kids, and factor that in the decision.
Picking the “right” hotel seems to be one of those “YMMV” things. Different themes will appeal to different families. We receive enough feedback from parents who think the spread out resorts are awful because of how inconvenient they are to navigate with kids, but plenty of others don’t mind the internal buses.
If you’re not sure whether it will matter to you and you’re traveling with young kids, you might consider hedging your bets and going for one of the more compact resorts. Along these same planning lines, many readers recommended not going to the park everyday, but instead spending a day or two to rest and enjoy the hotel. To that end, make sure you read in advance Tips for Saving Money on Disney Tickets post, to determine which Disney tickets are the best for you to purchase.
Where to Eat
Certain restaurants are more fun for kids. Namely, restaurants with cool and kid-friendly themes. Sci-Fi Dine-In Theater ranks at the top of this list. I still remember eating here as a kid, although I don’t really remember any other restaurant (besides Hoop De Doo Revue, and that’s only because we went there every year, so something was bound to stick to my memory). Our list of the Best Themed Restaurants at Walt Disney World is a great resource for making Advance Dining Reservations (ADRs).
There are some places we don’t recommend dining with kids. We’d try to avoid restaurants that charges a $10/person no-show fee to guarantee an ADR, especially at dinner. This is only charged if you don’t cancel the ADR at least 48 hours in advance. The reason we don’t recommend these restaurants is because you won’t know until the day of if the kids will be good to go for dinner after a long day in the park, and by the time you do know, you either have to cancel and pay the fee, or suck it up and take some potentially cranky kids to dinner to avoid the fee.
In some cases, booking restaurants that charge this fee may seem unavoidable. Popular character restaurants like Chef Mickey’s and Crystal Palace charge this fee, but fortunately, both of these restaurants are open for breakfast, when things are much more predictable with the kids. Doing a character breakfast at Crystal Palace also means getting to enter the Magic Kingdom before guests (if you book a slot in the first hour it’s open–these ADRs are difficult to score), which can be a really special experience for the kids!
Our other recommendation for places that many families should avoid is Signature Restaurants. (There’s a lot of overlap between these restaurants and the $10 fee restaurants, as Signature Restaurants charge the $10 fee.) These restaurants do allow children, and a lot of parents bring their kids to the restaurants. However, they’re upscale restaurants that definitely skew towards adults, with adult ambiance, adult cuisine, and adult prices.
If your kids are often loud or unruly during dinner (or need to be entertained with an iPad or coloring book to behave), it’s probably not the best of ideas to bring them to these restaurants. We mention this because a lot of “for kids” guides written by actual parents try to justify taking any children to these restaurants with the mentality that “it’s Disney World, the place was made for kids, they are okay ANYWHERE.”
Speaking for the adults without kids who form the main clientele of Signature Restaurants: this isn’t true at all. Not only was Walt Disney World not built solely “for kids” (look at old “Vacation Kingdom of the World” advertising showcasing golf, formal dining, and water-skiing), but other restaurant patrons will be irritated by the presence of unruly children during their nice, expensive meal.
Parents with kids might disagree with this, but we feel it’s one of those trade-offs mentioned at the outset. Adults without kids get to enjoy fine dining, parents get to enjoy the glimmer in their child’s eye when they first meet Pluto…parents, you’re still getting the better end of the deal!
Neil B. offers a suggestion for the best of both worlds: “Make certain to get a parents only ADR at a signature restaurant located in a resort that has a child care center.” These child care centers are pretty common in the Deluxe Resorts, and an adult’s date night can be fun for the adults AND the kids. Some of the most fun I had at Walt Disney World as a kid was playing at the Neverland Club at Disney’s Polynesian Resort while my parents went to Pleasure Island.
If your kids are well behaved, by all means take them to any restaurant (besides Victoria & Albert’s, where they flat out are prohibited). It might be an expensive way to feed kids, but there’s not necessarily a problem with taking them.
As for counter service restaurants, most places in Walt Disney World have pretty tame options that will appeal to children. World Showcase in Epcot is a notable exception to this, as is Be Our Guest Restaurant in the Magic Kingdom. World Showcase should come as no surprise, and parents with picky eaters might want to have lunch at Sunshine Seasons before heading to the World Showcase, but Be Our Guest Restaurant is located in New Fantasyland, so this one catches more people by surprise. Be Our Guest Restaurant is really cool and the kids will love the experience, so if you can convince them to try things slightly outside their comfort zones, here would be the place to try that.
Our final recommendation with dining is to go early to avoid the crowds. We recommend everyone do this, but it’s especially important with kids. Some restaurants get really busy around noon, to the point where it can be difficult to find a table. Juggling the kids and trays of food during these times can be difficult (we’ve seen plenty of families struggle with it), and it’s just much easier when things aren’t so busy. The opening times for restaurants varies, but most start serving lunch at 10:30 am or 11 am.
Check out our Walt Disney World restaurant reviews to read more about particular restaurants.
Attractions
The salient recommendation here is to not take kids on rides that they’re not ready to experience. For starters, read our Disney Parks Ride Guides that describe, rate, and provide other info for each ride. Beyond that…how can you know whether they’re ready? Well, the best way is to gauge their reactions or what they say when they approach an attraction.
Lots of kids are scared at the prospect of the Haunted Mansion, and just because a Cast Member tells you that it’s mostly comical ghosts doesn’t mean your kids will pick up on that nuance of the attraction. To them it might be the case that a ghost is a ghost is a ghost, and all are equally scary. You may also find they’re scared of things that seem innocuous.
If they are reluctant to go on The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh, don’t force them. Kids won’t even be able to ride some attractions due to height, something Tonya J. reminds us of: “With small children, they can not ride most of the rides until they are 40-44″ tall.” However, it’s important to remember that height is no guarantee that a child will enjoy an attraction.
It seems like everyday we’re in Walt Disney World, we see parents trying to coax their kids to “be brave” and go on a particular attraction. This probably stems from the mentality that the vacation was expensive, and parents want to get their money’s worth.
If the attraction is going to traumatize the child and make them nervous about experiencing subsequent attractions with which they otherwise wouldn’t have had an issue, what is gained by forcing them to “be brave”? Nothing. Their memories of the trip will form around those negative experiences, and there will be issues for the rest of the day or rest of the trip. So why force it?
The rationale kids have for wanting to do or not wanting to do things perplexes even astronauts (who are supposed to know everything), so there’s no sense trying to rationalize or reason with them about experiencing an attraction. Karin J. offers solid advice in this regard: “Do not take young children on attractions they aren’t ready for. I’ve heard many stories from others who did that and it can ruin the trip, because the child is miserable and then can be fearful of everything afterward. Test them with tamer rides first if young and see what they like and can handle.”
Of course, you know your kids better than a guide written by some stranger who doesn’t know your kids, and there’s always the chance that your kids have initial hesitation but are typically fine once they actually engage in the experience. If you know this to be the case with your kids, disregard the above advice, and encourage them to go on attractions about which they’re nervous. But if you don’t know, and find yourself just pushing them because you want to do as much as possible, rethink the strategy.
As for what attractions are best for kids, that depends on the kid. We’ve seen kids like and dislike just about every attraction at Walt Disney World, and any list you see elsewhere is going to be based on what the list writer’s kids enjoy. Their kids aren’t your kids.
I absolutely loved Country Bear Jamboree as a child (and still love it), but I read parents all the time who call it a snoozer that puts their kids to sleep. While I assume these kids are communists ;), the point stands that what different people and kids enjoy may be shocking. Erin S. illustrates this point with her daughter: “You can’t plan for everything, so be prepared to go with the flow. Who knew my daughter’s fave ride would be the transportation bus?”
To get an idea of what your kids will like in advance, we recommend watching YouTube attraction ride through videos; just search for the attraction name plus “ride through” and you should find plenty of results. You might even watch these with your kids so you can see their reaction to specific attractions (like we said above, they may be scared by things that surprise you and they may like things that you thought would’ve scared them). You should also order a Free Vacation Planning Video from Disney to watch with your kids. Not only will it get them excited for the trip, but it will give them an idea of what to expect (of course, it might create expectations that you’ll then have to fulfill, too…).
It’s also important to remember that, for kids, character meet & greets are an important part of the experience. Doing a character meal can be a great way to see several characters without waiting in line, and while eating in the air conditioning. We highly recommend character meals. If you don’t want to do character meals, indoor meet & greets are typically better options. Megan R. shares: “Waiting in line for the Epcot Character Spot is better than waiting in separate lines (usually in the heat outside) for the main characters, if that’s something your kiddos want.”
Multiple beloved characters are in the Character Spot, and although the line can get long for this meet & greet, it’s still usually shorter than waiting in separate lines elsewhere. Chris T. has a recommendation for meet and greets with which we strongly agree: “Skip the stupid autograph books. If you have an outgoing child who’s not afraid to talk, get them to interact with the characters. They’ll have a lot more fun.”
No matter how much you prep yourself and them, there’s always the possibility (nay, probability) that they’ll surprise you once you visit. To this day I remember being scared senseless by the Universe of Energy as a child and hiding on the floor of the ride vehicle when I saw the dinosaurs…and I loved dinosaurs as a child. This was no fault of my parents, but it made for a bad experience that I still remember. Unpredictable things like this happen, and the best you can do is damage control once they do happen.
Plan of Attack
If you’re like my dad, you teach your children life lessons through maxims and colloquialisms. A popular one is always “the early bird gets the worm.” A trip to Walt Disney World is a great time to really hammer this one home. (Okay, maybe not in the sense that the trip is really the time for teaching them life lessons, but you should follow it on the trip.)
Tackling Walt Disney World with kids is so much easier if you’re up early and to the parks before they open. Ideally, you want to arrive 15-30 minutes before official opening time, and you want to have a plan of attack for at least your early morning. Usually this will involve experiencing several attractions in Fantasyland and New Fantasyland, most of which are quickly experienced and can get long lines later in the day. In these cases, the difference between being to the park at 8:30 am versus 10:30 am can be a 5 minute wait for Peter Pan’s Flight versus a 60 minute wait for Peter Pan’s Flight. The importance of arriving early cannot be understated.
As for specific plans of attack, we have a variety of 1-day itineraries for every park at Walt Disney World (and beyond). For Magic Kingdom, we also have a 2-day itinerary.
Don’t expect to stick to these plans if you have small children. They may become tired, irritated, or they may spontaneously see something they really, really want to do. We’re not suggesting that you should always let kids call the shots, but at Walt Disney World…there are a lot of circumstances where you should let kids call the shots.
If your rabbit-loving kid see White Rabbit and Alice over by the Mad Tea Party, but your plans call for doing Barnstormer, it’s going to be difficult to explain the importance of “efficiency” and skipping Alice and White Rabbit. When you’re with kids, these plans should be a rough outline of the day, not rigid plans of attack.
This was advice multiple parents shared with us, and the recurring theme of this advice was that it’s important to slow down and not over-plan. Jennifer D. puts it rather succinctly: “Be patient and don’t over plan. Younger kids will go at their own pace.” Sharlene M. expands upon this a bit, advising: “The youngest member of your group is always going to determine your touring style. Slow down, take a nap, and keep them on as close to their normal schedule as possible, especially for meals. You will have a better trip and everyone else will too. A melt down is no fun for anyone.”
Beyond arriving early and having a loose plan, you should also utilize Disney’s free FastPass+ system, which allows you to get a ticket to return to an attraction at a later time and bypass most of the line at select attractions. Again, be prepared not to use these if your plans change. There’s no crime in letting a FastPass go to waste. Another similar time-saving option is the Rider Switch Pass (more commonly known as a “Child Swap”), which can be obtained from Cast Members outside attractions with height limits.
This pass allows one parent to stay with the kids who don’t meet the height requirement for an attraction while the other parent (or group of above-height people) waits with the kids. When the riding parent/group is done, the waiting parent/group (up to 3 per pass) can use the pass as a FastPass. Since three people can use the pass, your kids who are tall enough to ride the attraction can conceivably go twice: once in line with the first parent, and the second time by using the pass with the parent who did the watching the first time!
Midday breaks are another popular recommendation, and these are something we advise taking advantage of for both parents and non-parents. The middle of the day is not only the busiest time at the parks, but it’s the hottest, too! A midday break allows you to return for nighttime fun, so definitely leave the park during the middle of the day.
When it comes to a “plan” for preserving memories, Karin J. reminds families that photo time should be early in the day on the plan: “Take pictures early in the day when the kids are happy and not worn out…have a current photo that shows exactly what they’re wearing if you get separated during the day.”
Strollers
Strollers receive their own section here since so many parents shared advice concerning strollers. We figure if this many people are sharing advice about them, stroller tips must be pretty important. The advice over strollers was pretty divided in some regards, with conflicting opinions even from parents. We are of the opinion that strollers are often a necessity. The parks are huge and small children simply cannot be expected to traverse World Showcase or Animal Kingdom without some assistance. However, for larger children, strollers might be overused. If these children have otherwise hit their limit, should they really be forced to kept going with strollers? Especially when they never use strollers are home?
When you look back at photos of Walt Disney World in the 1970s, 1980s, or even early 1990s as we often do, you notice far (FAR!) fewer strollers scattered all around the parks. This isn’t because more children are visiting now, it’s because a greater segment of children are using strollers. When we’ve visited the Paris and Asia parks, we’ve noticed shockingly lower use of strollers by guests at the international parks.
There are still strollers, but not nearly as many. I assume a big part of this has to do with the active lifestyles of Europeans and Asians as compared to Americans, but that’s just a guess. Anyway, our first piece of advice when advance planning would not be to plan on renting a stroller for older kids, but would instead be to work on increasing their stamina before the trip. Strollers are just as much a hassle as they are a convenience, so why take one if you really don’t need it? Of course, this won’t be practical advice for everyone, and we recognize that.
Reader Rhonda B. agrees: “Have your child walk. We took our children to Disney back in the days when children were not obese, went outside to play, and exercised. They were 2 and 4 years old….now 22 and 24 (currently a cast member). My youngest, age 2, did just fine.”
However, not everyone agrees. “Rent a stroller! Even for your kids that have outgrown them…Something that’s comfortable for the kids, we had an lightweight break and had to call Orlando Stroller Rentals they got us one that day. Amazing. It cost the same as our stroller we bought and it was a double, had lots of room for bag and a big sun shade,” says Jill M.
It’s about a 50/50 split as to whether you should bring a stroller or rent one at Walt Disney World. Megan R. shared this: “TAKE your own stroller! Totally not a hassle in the airport (can be gate checked for free) and so much nicer and cheaper than renting the plastic ones from Disney.” On the other side, some parents recommend renting a stroller because what you’ll want at Walt Disney World might differ from what you’d normally use at home. Again, a YMMV situation.
Regardless of whether you rent or bring your own, the overwhelming recommendation parents shared with us was to use an umbrella stroller. Dawn B. said this: “When my boys were younger, we always brought umbrella strollers (if it reclines for naps, that’s a bonus–not all umbrella’s recline). The umbrella stroller was nice because it folds easily for bus rides to parks and helps save grown ups from carrying little ones from the parking lot into the park.”
Kayla E. shared a few additional tips: “Bring a poncho or rain cover for your stroller…if you’re in a ride or eating when an afternoon rainstorm breaks out, that will help. Tie a scarf, balloon, something identifying on stroller. It will probably be moved from the time you park it to picking it up.” She further added, “think in advance how you’ll ride the bus. If you have two or more kids, a stroller, and a few bags, boarding the bus can be a mess.
Know how to fold the stroller, and if you can, fold it before the bus arrives, not as you’re stepping aboard.” The bus advice is something to consider when deciding which stroller to use in the parks. On the one hand, a Cadillac-sized stroller can be nice to use, but the drawback is transporting it when there aren’t kids in it, which can really be a pain. Weigh the pros and the cons before settling on one stroller.
Enhancing the Fun!
A lot of people look for little ways to make the trip more “magical” for their kids. We’d advise parents not to fret too much about adding more “magic” for the kids, as it seems more likely to put pressure on the adults than to really result in that much of an enhanced experience for the kids. Really, if you’re a kid at Walt Disney World, that’s already about as magical as it gets.
There are ways to make the trip more “interactive” for the kids. Ben H. summarizes some of our favorites: “Hidden Mickey books go over well, too. And prizes to daily winners, if you can afford. The books have different Mickeys at different point values, as do the apps! Disposable cameras are an inexpensive way to let a kid be a photographer without risking their iPod Touch or your iPhone to damage. Zip-top bags are a must for electronics… they’ve saved my butt more than once in a surprise rain storm!”
Buying Disney pins in advance of the trip to trade with Cast Members was another piece of popular advice. Here’s what Bernadette G. had to say: “Pin trading was a huge hit for our three kids (teen through six year old) on our first trip to WDW last year – great for helping shy ones muster up the courage to interact with cast members, etc. I second (third?) buying them in advance on ebay – we doled them out a bit at a time over the vacation to spread out the fun.”
The over-arching advice regarding souvenirs is to always buy before leaving home, as things are much more expensive in the parks. Rosalie gives another example: “Bring your own costumes, never buy them at the parks. Buy your Princess dresses right on or immediately after halloween from Disney.com, they will be on sale, or wait for any of the numerous sales Disney.com has. Never pay full price, if you like it, wait and it will go on sale.”
A recommendation of something that might make the trip a little more special for parents is shared by Darleen L., who writes: “Many people don’t know about the Main Street Barber Shop. It is NOT just there for looks/atmosphere. They do an AMAZING “baby’s first haircut” there! By amazing, I mean, take your tissue and camera!”
Another miscellaneous tip comes from Sara S., who recommends taking a lot of photos (we agree!): “Another tip that was great for our family is take pictures of everything. My husband loves photography and snaps pictures constantly. It’s not uncommon for him to take over 6,000 in a 10 day trip…. He took tons of shots of our kids, but also took lots and lots of pictures of the parks themselves. There are so many details that I missed because I was so busy looking down at our youngest. I was so grateful to have to pictures when I came home, even the ones that were a little out of focus!”
We could keep going and going with tips, as lots of great ones were shared, but we fear this article is already bordering on information overload. If you still have unanswered questions, feel free to post them below! If you want perspective from actual parents, consider visiting the Walt Disney World Mom’s Panel. If you need personalized help with planning any aspect of your vacation—we recommend contacting a no fee “Authorized Disney Vacation Planner” (Disney’s term for a travel agent) to get a quote and to help you plan. They get their commission from Disney, so none of the authorized (key word) planners will charge you for booking their trip and helping. Here’s one such recommended Authorized Disney Vacation Planner.
We’ll close out this article with perhaps the best piece of advice and something that’s always worth remembering from reader Anthony G., who writes, “BE A KID TOO! All the prep tips are awesome. But enjoying Disney with your kids as a kid is the best part of going to Disney with Kids!”
We agree. A trip to Walt Disney World with kids can seem overwhelming and it might sound like a lot can go wrong…but way more can go right than can go wrong. Roll with the punches and remember to lighten up and have fun!
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Your Thoughts…
Now that you’ve heard from two people without kids, let’s hear from people who actually have kids. What tips do you parents think are most important? Which advice we shared do you agree with? Where do you disagree? Any questions we can help you answer? Hearing feedback about your experiences is both interesting to us and helpful to other readers, so please share your thoughts below in the comments!
Not really fair to call autograph books stupid. Kids love them, it’s about the kids. Leave your negativity elsewhere.
We are going to disney for first time the week of Christmas!! Any suggestions for how to do a Santa gift on Christmas for 8 and 10 year olds best way bring ahead or deliver? Any suggestions of must have things for a “gift box” I can make ahead and give them on the first day both girls? Thanks
For young children I highly recommend considering visiting Magic Kingdom when the sun sets early, like mid January into February. The fireworks are as early as 8:00 PM which was a much more pleasant and tolerable time for my little ones.
You forgot a crucial point that I at least couldn’t do without. Childcare, there are 4 playhouse/club you can drop off kids off for the evening. There’s even room-in sitters! Some are flat rate others are by the hour and some have discounts! I drop my kids off at least twice per week trip. Our schedule is go to opening until 3pm, leave, return later or daycare, be back at hotel by 9pm. Typically 3hr break from kids each drop off at the facility per night. Oh but the difference! That’s magic at bringing peace and smiles back….and strength for another long day. We also plan the middle day is always Fort Wilderness to chill.
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We took our son for the first time at almost 14 months. Planned the trip around his 1st Haircut at the Harmony Barber Shop. Booked character breakfasts each morning to keep his attention, best meal of the day. We took him on anything that was ‘any height’ and he did great. Rode Frozen in the dark and loved it, even put his hands up for the drop. You just need to know your child and slow down and enjoy it. The trip was actually more relaxing wit him, because we did go at a slower pace. Umbrella stroller and rain cover for the stroller was the best advice I received prior to going. Disney is great with requesting a crib in your room (we stayed at the Poly) and even came with spare sheets just in case. The Poly was great for an infant trip. Our room was in a building that was easy to push the stroller right out, catch the monorail, and be off to the parks. The kid pool area was awesome too, lots to look at and could wade in with my hubby. The park Baby Centers were awesome and great place to get out of the heat and change him. If you forgot something, you could purchase it there. We ate at nicer restaurants, but chose wisely. Boma (it was louder), Via Napoli pizza (lots to watch). Coral Reef was the only bad restaurant for us with him, dark and the aquarium did not keep his attention like we thought it would. He also did great at the Food & Wine festival, we just picked foods wisely from carts for him. We already have a trip to go back again this fall (age 2) and will probably do it each year with him. We all had a blast.
Tara,
I would love to hear how your trip went when your little one was 2. We are planning our first trip for our son when he hits 2 this November. I have planned it around what I think he will like, but it is always difficult to tell.
We took a 2 year old, and it was awesome. He was tall enough for Mine Train, and loved it, but his favorite was Buzz Lightyear. He loved all the Fantasy Land rides. We didn’t try the more frightening ride she like Pirates or Hainted Mansion until he was 3.
He did not like the character meal at Tuskerhouse House because it gets very loud in there, but he did fine at Crystal Palace. He loved all the rides and all sites and the fireworks (although he did wear some noise canceling headphones).
The key for us was heading back to the hotel for an afternoon nap each day. We then went out in the evenings, and he slept in the stroller if we stayed past bedtime.
You left out that very young children will annoy everyone on the airplane. Do yourself and everyone a favor, travel with kids when they are at least 6 years old and older.
Wow! I think you forgot that you were a child once. I’ve been traveling with my kids since they were infants. Seattle to Florida and we haven’t had one complaint. Bitter people annoy me.
My children are actually very well behaved on plans as they have been traveling since they were as young as two months old. Maybe you should find some compassion. And manners.
Wow did you really say that?
If people pay for a seat for their children they have as much right to be there as you. Get a grip, you were a child once to you know.
Trying to determine which of the Disney witches you resonate the best with. You do realize that there are a lot of 2-3 year olds better behaved than 6,7, and 8 year old. What am I saying… Of course you don’t know. No one wanted to have kids with you. Duh… Besides that normal human beings realize that humanity only continues if you have kids, and you can’t just completely stop living because you have kids. Think about what you are saying suppose I have 3 kids and 2 years between each kid. That would mean 10 years would have passed, before I could get on living my life again. That also means my oldest child wouldn’t be able to go to Disney until they were 10, once the “magic” is already starting to fade. Your just a selfish and narrow minded little thing. Do yourself and everyone a favor and never go to Disney World.
Wait which parks to see?
Magic Kingdom is a must and has a lot of small child appropriate rides. Hollywood studios has all the Disney Junior characters. Animal Kingdom has animals for the animal lover. Epcot is the most grown up of all the parks, but it does have the Frozen meet up and ride. At the end of the day is what your child enjoys most.
In my case, my little one loves Magic Kingdom so we did a day and a half there, she also enjoyed Epcot (we only did half a day there) but all we did was the frozen ride, meet up, princess character dinner, and Illuminations.
I have been to Disney a few times as a grown up before going with my son when he was 18 months old. It was totally different and even more magical going with him.
I didn’t read anything about the Baby Centers on the article and they were great help for me. A calm place in the park where I was able to change his diapers and clothes, I could feed him heated baby food, there are baby items to be purchased if you need them (pacifiers, baby food, etc.).
We are going again and he will be 4 at the time. I know it will be awesome!
Not sure if this has been mentioned in previous posts but we rented a stroller from Kingdom Strollers in Orlando. A double (our kids were 4 and 18 mo. at the time) cost us about $80 for the entire trip. Obviously if you are traveling with only one child an umbrella stroller would probably be easy enough to take on the plane and save you some money, but the rental was a great option for us. It was relatively inexpensive (certainly considering that these are Baby Jogger products), gave us access to the stroller for our entire vacation, and allowed us to not have to rent those bulky plastic strollers at the park (which are also wildly over priced). Our favorite part is that they dropped off the stroller at our hotel the day of our arrival and all we had to do was drop it back off at our hotel lobby the day we left. If you are committed to renting a stroller while there I would highly recommend a local rental company (like Kingdom Stroller) as our experience was wonderful.
This is my favorite “Disney with kids” article by far. Well done Tom! I’ve been to Disney World 5+ times and our trips have always been very fast paced. We will be going with our 2 year old son in May and my parents will also be joining us so that should help. This is our first fastpass+ experience and everything is all set. I’m trying have that go with the flow, low expectation mindset but how can you when you have to say 60 days in advance where you will be, what day, within one hour. I plan to utilize parent swap and just try to stay flexible but I’m stressed about not being stressed! Probably seems silly, but I hope when push comes to shove I can take a step back and just enjoy the little moments. And still get some big ones in too Any thoughts?
Hi! We took my son when he was 2 along with his then 8 month old sister. We had such fun! We went with a group of family members, and you will LOVE having the grandparents alone. I highly recommend asking them to watch your son in the hotel for at least one evening so you can go enjoy yourselves, just the two of you. We enjoyed 2 adult only dinner/park evenings with our kids staying at the resort with family members, and it truest gave us the best of both worlds!
The baby was a gem for the entire trip. She slept through most of it, including rides-she even fell asleep mid-frozen lol.
Our little boy did have 2 big melt downs-both our faults. The first problem was that we selected, for our VERY first experience in the parks the morning after a late arrival with less rest than usual,, a character breakfast at noisy, busy Tusker House. We should have built up to that. Our 2 year old was over-stimulated from second one and unhappy about the whole thing. He wasn’t a afraid of the characters-it was the crowd and the noise and the fact that expectation was that he’d be going on rides. We should have done breakfast in the room and started day 1 with attractions for sure. That said, he LOVED Crystal Palace later in the trip.
The second problem was that we keept him out past his normal lunch time and then tackling Be Our Guest. Even with ADR, it took over 30 min from check in to sit down. It was all downhill from there. We had a very successful lunch a different day in Animal Kingdom, but there was 0 crowd and it was quick and wasn’t eating into nap time. We also had positive experiences eating at the resort restaurant. BOG was just too much.
Everything else was delightful! He loved the rides, especially 7 Dwarves Mine Train (he was a tall 2, so we gave it a try) and Buzz Light Year and Teacups and Peter Pan. His favorite was the resort bus, so we had no trouble convincing him to leave the parks.
We arrived daily at the parks prior to opening and left for afternoon naps.
Here is a tip: We took some noise canceling earmuffs for the fireworks. Lots of kids are scared of them, so the headgear prevented that.
All in all, it was awesome. I, po, easy worried would stress about no time stressing out. We kept our plans simple-hit up our fast pass times and fill in gaps with attractions with no lines. We got to do lots of walk-On rides just by arriving at Rope-drop -including Frozen. (Actually we had FP for Frozen later in the day and spent WAY longer in the FP line than we did when we arrived initially.)
Have fun! Keep your nap schedule, an utilize the help you’ve have coming.
1- Strollers are absolutely a must if you are planing a full day at the park with your little ones. If you are planing to go back to the resort for nap time (you should absolutely do this if staying close enough to the park) then it is not as necessary. The stroller also doubles as a great place to keep your belongings (bulky coats, ponchos, backpacks, drinks, etc). The down side is that EVERYONE brings a stroller, so it gets pretty crowded, and you can’t bring them everywhere either. Also stroller parking gets rearranged by cast members constantly to insure optimal space. If you can’t find your stroller it doesn’t mean it was stolen (most likely) it just means it was moved by a cast member and now you get to play the SUPER fun game of find that stroller among 100 other very similar ones (and no, the balloon trick doesn’t really work, everyone does it).
2- Definitely do character meals, so much better than doing lines to meet them. Your little one gets to sit down in the AC, eat, and meet his favorite characters.
3- Memory maker is actually worth it. When we went the first time we thought this was stupid, in the age of iphones, why on earth would I pay for pictures? Well those photographers capture some really magical shots (being professionals and all), it also permits all of your party to be in the picture without it having to be a selfie. They can also add some magical effects and such which is just icing on the cake.
4- I read in another blog this thing called Tinker Bell gifts. Which are little presents you give to your child from Tinker Bell to keep them entertained (hit that Disney store twice upon a year sale and stock up). You can give it to them in the drive/flight, at the hotel, in those really long lines, just any time you need some quick entertainment. (Also can check dollar store or amazon for more budget friendly options).
5- Lastly the age of the child. This is completely up to the parent. But in my experience 3 years old is a pretty sweet spot for that first trip (even better if you time your trip right before they turn 3, then they are old enough to enjoy it, while they are still free). I know some parents that start taking their children from babyhood, but that to me is not enjoyable for all parties since the child has no idea what is going on, at least one parent has to remain out for every ride, and there are just too many things that will result in the baby being overwhelmed. So my recommendation is wait until your child is at least close to 3, unless you have an older child that will actually enjoy things even if you have to take one for the team and sacrifice your own enjoyment.
Bonus: Did you know the Contemporary Resort is a short 12 minute walk from Magic Kingdom? And it is the first stop on the monorail loop on the way back 😉